How it works

Four steps from profile to conversation

Ishtam keeps things simple. You see people who fit what you are looking for, and you only talk to people who chose you too.

The four steps

1
Create your profile
Add photos, a short bio, your interests and what you are looking for.
2
Discover people nearby
Browse profiles that fit your age range, distance and intentions.
3
Match when it's mutual
Like someone. If they like you back, it's a match. No one-sided messages.
4
Start the conversation
Chat in real time with your matches, and meet when you both feel ready.

Set your own discovery distance. Others see your city and a rough distance, never your exact location.

Say whether you want something casual, serious or long-term, and see the same from everyone else.

A badge appears only after a completed check, so you know when a profile has been verified.

Only matches can message you. Block, report or unmatch in two taps, and our team reviews every report.